Monthly Archives: July 2012

Will you run with me?

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I was shopping for a new dress.  I made a speedy trek across the store to look for matching shoes, when I happened upon a lovely young woman with two children. I turned the corner only to find her son crouched down behind the counter in hopes of surprising his mother. He seemed quite shocked when it was me and I echoed “gotcha” right back. He laughed and fled to quickly find his mother.

This moms tender demeanor caught me off guard, as we exchanged smiles as if to say, it is okay that you spoke to my child. We all laughed again. I stopped long enough to step down and speak to her older infant. She appeared to be attentive, consistently reigning in the energy of a 4 year old. To the point that I kept an eye on the 10 month old while she caught up with her son.

We all tried on shoes. She somehow made it the register area before I did and made a small purchase. She smiled back at me as she headed out the door a couple transactions ahead of me. As I finished up, my phone rang and I stumbled through my purse in hopes of catching the call. Not to be, but God would prove purposeful in the delay.

As I pushed the door open, I was shocked to see the same precious woman in handcuffs. One officer was going through her vehicle and the other officer stood by her. She stood sobbing. I had to go right by her as my car was just feet away.

Our eyes met just as I was nearing my car from the sidewalk. I stood in shock as she explained that she is a single mom. I have never done anything like this. I have no family. I tried to get help from local agencies but I make too much money for assistance. My children needed shoes.

My heart was broken. She is a good mom. A caring, loving and conscientious mom. My heart felt in that moment the horror of being alone, desperate and having no idea what else to do. What is a mom to do? We continued to make eye contact. So with my hand raised to my heart, I quietly said….”God loves you….God loves you. He is near. It’s going to be okay.”

With her distraction, the officer turned around and gave me the “would you please mind your own business lady look?” I said once again, “God loves YOU!” She quietly moved her lips to say “thank you.”

I have no idea what her name is. How God was going to “work things out for good” Romans 8:28? What might become of her but I did know one thing. Her hope alone will come from our great God. He is faithful. Sure. Trustworthy. Able. The maker of miracles. The restorer of hearts. He loves her! And God spoke clearly to my heart in that moment that I was to speak to her with that confidence a message straight from the throne of God.

In every moment that God lays before us, we have two choices. Obedience or Disobedience.

What moments have I missed? When should I have been bolder? How often have I quenched the work that the Spirit of God wanted to do in my life or the life of another? When has my narrow view only included MY wants, needs, “to do” list?

Lord, help me to be sensitive to the Holy Spirit and obey…..even when there were likely another pair of handcuffs to cuff me as well. Yikes! Thankfully, God took over quickly before I had too much time to analyze the situation. Have to admit that my knees were a little shaky when the seriousness of the encounter (opportunity for the Gospel) hit me.

On that day, I was reminded to listen, train, obey and run with aim & purpose.

I was just wondering if you will run with me? By making the most of every opportunity? By training spiritually with the intensity of an Olympic athlete’s perseverance, commitment, sacrifice and loyalty to the call to run?

Simple Obedience

“You’ve all been to the stadium and seen the athletes race. Everyone runs; one wins. Run to win. All good athletes train hard. They do it for a gold medal that tarnishes and fades. You’re after one that’s gold eternally. I don’t know about you, but I’m running hard for the finish line. I’m giving it everything I’ve got. No sloppy living for me! I’m staying alert and in top condition.” 1 Corinthians 9:24-27

Onward to Jesus

“[Focused on the Goal]I’m not saying that I have this all together, that I have it made. But I am well on my way, reaching out for Christ, who has so wondrously reached out for me. Friends, don’t get me wrong: By no means do I count myself an expert in all of this, but I’ve got my eye on the goal, where God is beckoning us onward—to Jesus. I’m off and running, and I’m not turning back.” Phillipians 3:14

 

I loved picking before picking was cool!

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Cline’s Country Antiques.

11839 Highway 49 North
Mount Pleasant, NC 28124

Overstimulated. Picking coma. Antiquities. Well-loved and in need of a home….. Unusual. Ordered chaos. Home. Architectural. Cast iron. Wood. If you cannot find what you are looking for here…. Image Re-purposed slightly loved items longing to be reused. A must visit. My friends Dianne says wear your boots……I would say Amen. Oh yeah, there are acres of fun to explore…..so come for the day!

Truth: I loved picking long before picking was cool!

Living and the miraculous

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“We live at the edge of the miraculous.” Writer Henry Miller

Butterfly Metamorphosis

New life…..a healthy baby is born.

The resurrection of Jesus Christ!

What miracle is just around your corner?

Heartenings….All!!

Mel

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Memory Making Idea for any gathering

What a wonderful way to create a living memorial of the event you are celebrating. Weddings, birthdays, graduation, friendship…..Take the time to celebrate with the purpose of remembrance.

Simple Life Heartenings Pin of the day!

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Simple Life Heartenings Pin of the day!

Fat Quarter Tote by the Cottage Mama for Riley Blake Designs

 

 

Kirk Cameron presents Monumenta- ln search of America’s National Treasure

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Ryan, Monty and I just finished watching the documentary with Kirk Cameron about the men and women of faith that sacrificed all and fled England in pursuit of religious freedom. I am committed to the role that I will play in securing the freedoms that I have taken for granted for my children, grandchildren and generations to come. My quiet approach to freedom has resulted in complacency. Not standing for my convictions feels like failure to me right now. So, I am actively in pursuit of the role that I will play in the future to insure such liberties for ALL generations to come. One simple person can change the world. My favorite quote from the movie will be my mantra….”Failure is not final!” Amen, Amen and Amen.

Simple Life Heartenings Pin of the Day

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.Zipper Bracelet by Rae

Instructions and Suggestions

After cutting the cloth away, use a lighter to trim up the edges close to the zippers. You can use a tiny drill bit to put the rings through to hold the lobster clasp. Add charms and Presto… a couple real cool bracelets that people seem to really like.

Great gift idea. Reuse. Re-purpose. Recycle.

Makes my heart smile!

Simple Life Heartenings…..the heavens declare!

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Simple Life Heartenings…..the heavens declare!

Simple Life Heartenings…the view from here!

“The heavens proclaim the glory of God, The skies display His craftsmanship. Day after day they continue to speak; night after night they make Him known. They speak without a sound or word; their voice is never heard. Yet their message has gone throughout the earth, and their words to all the world. God has made a home in the heavens for the sun.” Psalm 19:1-4

The schedule of my life is often nothing short of chaotic. By being purposeful with my calendar, I am able to cherish carved moments in my quest for enjoying the simple things in my life. The limitations in the hours in a day at home are often complicated by the things that are equally as important.

Not unlike your lives, normalcy is found in juggling the balls related to our lives’ calling, our spouse. family, friendships, personal care, spiritual things, housework (ugh), meals, etc…..and the things that we love the most….gardening, a ride on the Harley, snuggle time on the couch and watching a movie together on a Saturday night, watching the sunset from our front porch….name yours….after all the lists are filled in, there is no energy left even IF we had the time.

And, when we finally get it right, you know, strike the balance, God cocoons you in the grandness of His love. And we are reminded of the simple daily moments that make our hearts complete.

The dates required by our ministry were filled in on the calendar in the Fall of 2011 as soon as our 2012 NASCAR schedule was set. Birthdays, anniversaries, appointments, other important dates, including the due date of March 2 for our first grandchild to arrive, etc…

Rejoicing, on February 28,2012 our grandson, Mason Blake Fannin was born. We missed our first Daytona 500 race in 11 years. In May, Monty’s mom, Bobbie would turn 80 years old. The party was beautiful, She was honored by sharing the night with 100 of her closest friends. On July 17, MRO and the women’s ministry would host 200 ladies at the annual Summer Caution, a pause with a cause event….a night to honor and donate supplies to Bright Blessings, a local non-profit that provides birthday gifts and parties for homeless children in the greater Charlotte, NC area.

And sandwiched between the next race and this event was the opportunity for Monty and I to slip away for a couple of days and have a little Christmas in July. I gave Monty the gift of a hot air balloon ride in Asheville, NC for the both of us. July 18, 2012, we were excited to run away for a few moments of alone time. While exhausted, we were fueled by the excitement of this Bucket List adventure.

It was everything that you might imagine and more. We were cleared to take off, and the excitement began. A scurry of men and women operated with such fervor that they looked like mice scurrying to beat out the others for a piece of cheese. With each movement, the majesty of the beautifully crafted basket and the magnitude of a 90 foot tall balloon was overwhelming.

Within moments of full inflation, we would board with the other 5 men and women and the pilot for an hour of sheer bliss. Not being a fan of heights, I wondered what I might feel. Would the basket hold, will I fall out, just how close are you to the flame required to fill such a large balloon, etc….Fill in your own questions.

As the balloon rose above the other balloon traveling that day as well, I was immediately transfixed by the beauty and majesty of Mount Pisgah. Interestingly, I have just been reading through Deuteronomy and thought back to Moses. Mount Pisgah (Mount Nebo) is the mountain in the Bible from which Moses saw the Promised Land for the first time. Mount Pisgah is where the LORD instructed Moses to go up into the top of Pisgah. Moses was to lift up his eyes westward, northward, southward, and eastward and look but Moses was not to go over Jordan. Mount Nebo (Mount Pisgah) is where Moses was given the view of the Promised Land, from the top of Mount Pisgah. After seeing the land promised by the LORD GOD, Moses died.

I thought of all the work that God did through the life of Moses. He stood on that mountain, saw the Promised Land and yet he would never enter. Deuteronomy 34 says that “No prophet has risen since in Israel like Moses.” And God buried him in the valley.

The pilot of our balloon was asked where will we go? End up? Land? Her reply. Wherever the wind takes us. And it would prove true.

There is no place that I have ever experienced such calm. Such peace. Such stillness. Such grandeur. Even in the winds that carried us.

So I say….from my view.

God is a mighty rushing wind. He leads. He wills. He is consistent and sure. He guides and directs us as we quiet our spirits in order to hear Him. As believers, we are dependent on the direction of the Holy Spirit.

He speaks quietly, reverently, boldly and with great majesty. As did our balloon respond to its complete direction.

Obstacles are allowed. We were on course with a seemingly sure landing site, only to have our basket drag across the treetops. Immediately changing our course. The balloon’s pilot maneuvering its controls to make the slightest changes necessary to regain perspective and control. Not unlike our lives when our course direction has been changed by circumstances beyond our control.Faltering at the controls can prove tragic.

Sometimes God allows us a place on higher ground to find perspective just like God gave to Moses. I am reminded to trust Him even more and be thankful because I do not always get to see a higher view when I find myself battling in the trenches. Tough stuff….want to know the will of God for your life? “In everything give thanks, for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus.” 1 Thessalonians 5:18

Landing is only one part in the journey of many. No two will be the same. We learn to navigate, defer to His power, and grow from the bumps along the way that lead to learning. With each adventure, our trust in Him grows. His purpose in our lives is His number one objective. Growing in Christ-likeness in order to bring honor and glory to His Name. We were created by Him, for Him.

Thanks for reminding us Lord that there are consequences when we fail to see YOUR perspective. Help us to I find our rest in Your faithfulness along the way. Whether a textbook landing or one that could have looked a little better, each moment teaches us to be more attentive to YOUR way.

Thankfully….You are still God…..despite my best and my worst.

We go through the process of faithfulness by studying His Word and using it in the hopes of being a vessel worthy of use by and for our maker. We operate time and time again and get better at this faith living life. We are allowed Mount Pisgah moments sometimes but not always. Yet, we trust Him when we cannot see the forest for the trees. And we practice, grow, are challenged, see victory, cry, try to sometimes fail.

And above all, we must declare His goodness through the generations and pass it on…..

Where are the winds of God blowing in your life friend? Will we be found faithful to the glory of God as was Moses? The answers do not lie in my perspective but in Him alone….

Finding joy in my simple life……Pray that you are too!!

You are loved!!

Melanie

Children are a gift from the Lord!!

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Children are a gift from the Lord!!

“For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother’s womb. I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well.” Psalm 139: 13-14

Christ Jesus Is Enough!!

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“I’m so grateful to Christ Jesus for making me adequate to do this work. He went out on a limb, you know, in trusting me with this ministry. The only credentials I brought to it were invective (bitter, insulting, and abusive) and arrogant. But I was treated mercifully.” 1 Timothy 1:12-13

When I consider God’s master plan through the ages, I am overwhelmed that He has invited me to join my heart with His. Humbled that He would allow me to be the bearer of the eternal message of love, mercy and grace.

Motor Racing Outreach (MRO) has been sharing God and Faith with the NASCAR Sprint Cup Series, NASCAR Nationwide Series, and other motor sports communities since 1988.

http://www.go2mro.com

My husband Monty and I have been blessed with the privilege of serving families in motor sports through the mobile MRO Community Center since 2001. On average, we travel 25 weekends during the year in order to provide care for men, women and children that travel weekly.  As MRO Women and Children’s Ministry Coordinator, I prepare my heart and home and invite families in motor sports in as our honored guests.

I so identify with Paul’s heart in this passage of Scripture. Some days I am reminded that there are more talented, qualified, capable, and educated women who could easily take my place but for “Christ Jesus making me adequate (enough) to do His work.” Amazing.

So, what’s YOUR story? Who has God made YOU adequate to serve, “to do this work”? What is YOUR hearts deepest need today? What lack do YOU need to surrender to Christ Jesus? I would love to hear from you so that I might encourage you on YOUR journey of faith. And as a way of reminder, the outcome is not dependent on your strength but in Christ alone.

“Grace mixed with faith and love poured over me and into me. And all because of Jesus. Here’s a word you can take to heart and depend on: Jesus Christ came into the world to save sinners. I’m proof….of someone who could never have made it apart from sheer mercy. And now He shows me (us)  off—evidence of His endless patience—to those who are right on the edge of trusting Him forever. Deep honor and bright glory to the King of All Time— One God, Immortal, Invisible, ever and always. Oh, yes!
I’m passing this work on to you…….All those prayers are coming together now so you will do this well, fearless in your struggle, keeping a firm grip on your faith and on yourself.” 1 Timothy 1:14-19

Be encouraged friend. I want you to know that I am praying for you today. And just as Paul encouraged Timothy, I am standing on the sidelines cheering you on. Christ Jesus is true to His character. He is faithful to do His part. Now it’s our turn to find our rest in His strength, for His glory.

You are loved!!

Mel